Everyone has so many mistakes. Some people hold grudge for a long time, for years, never forgetting.
And it is not good. Don’t keep bad memories! What happened, after two hours don’t mention it anymore,
because it creates bad feelings. It is fitna. It is making the face ugly.
He (al-Raḥmān) likes those who forgive and forget.
Mawlānā Shaykh Nāzim al Haqqanī